Poet Robert Frost once wrote:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
It’s a romantic notion, and many times it’s absolutely true. After all, Jesus said, “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” (Matthew 7:13-14) Let’s face it. Following the crowd is very rarely a virtue, and very often it leads to destruction, especially in this day and age, but we have to be careful. Just because not everyone is doing a thing, doesn’t mean it’s necessarily virtuous.
In my late teens/early twenties, (I don’t exactly remember which) for about 15 seconds, I was in a band. It wasn’t really my kind of music, and I was not very good, hence the 15 seconds, but I wanted to be in a band, so I got out my electric bass and joined up. We were playing new wave/punk music, and while the music was alright, I quickly grew tired of the culture. My thoughts can be best described in a line I wrote for a song on which I was working. It said:
“Be a nonconformist, just like everybody else.”
The point is this. Sometimes there is a reason the road is less traveled, and sometimes what appears to be the road less traveled is really the one “everyone” is taking. Sometimes accepted cultural norms are anything but normal and should not be accepted. We want to feel like things are counter cultural, and so we (especially when that “we” are artistic, creative types) want to jump on board and that is not always the right move. After all the Bible also says, “There’s a way that seems right to a man but in the end it leads to death.” Maybe it’s time we realized our mother’s were right when they asked the question, “If everyone else was jumping off a bridge, would you jump too?” Maybe instead of automatically taking the road less travelled, we should take the time to discern where the road leads, and seek one that has a bridge that we can cross rather than jump from. After all, most of the time jumping off a bridge is not a good plan.
Better than automatically looking for the road less traveled, we should ask ourselves which road is Jesus on? The path Jesus takes is very rarely the path of least resistance, but the road He is on is the right path, and the only one that leads home. So how can we objectively know which road He would have us take? It’s not just looking for the road less traveled. It’s checking the path we are considering against the Word of God, and if the path we are considering is against the Word of God, it’s not the right road. It’s less about asking “What would Jesus do?” because in our pride, that usually ends up being whatever road we want to take. Instead, it’s more about looking at the Word, and asking “What did Jesus do?” One quick rule of thumb: If your path involves sin, as defined by the Word of God, Jesus didn’t do it, so you know that’s the wrong road, no matter how many people are on it.
The thing is the straight and narrow road idea is a metaphor. It gives us a general idea. Many times the road of following Jesus, AKA the right road, appears hard and bumpy, and often has many twists and turns. Some of those twists and turns are by design, but many of those twists and turns happen because we veered from the right path and made the road harder than it had to be. The good news is, when that is the case, God allows U-turns, and Jesus is always there ready to welcome us back. The right road is the one Jesus actually took. Follow that road, no matter what the prevailing culture tells you to do, because the road Jesus took, is the only one that leads where you really want to go.
Someone came up with the cheeky idea that if there’s a Stairway to Heaven and a Highway to Hell, it shows anticipated traffic volumes, and there is some truth to that, but if we’re on the road of following Jesus, we who have been given creative gifts are supposed to be using our gifts, our talents and our time to mark the path as we walk it and show the way, working with our Lord to make His way (AKA the ONLY right way) the road MORE traveled.