Posts Tagged ‘fear’


The Bible says the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I’ve always wrestled with this verse and what it means. On one hand we need to stand in awe of our awesome God, and there should be a certain amount of fear involved in running afoul of His ways. We should fear living in such a way as to defy the God of the universe.

I’ve seen this illustrated in the life of someone I love very dearly who just stepped in to his first year as a full-time public school teacher. When he corrects a student, they will say things like “Make me.” When I was in school, that would have been followed by a swift and painful response, which of course has been taken off the table. We think we have evolved so much as a society, but truth be known, we’re not doing these kids any favors. Sooner or later they will come up against someone who is not bound by the rules of polite society who will in fact “make them” or their out and out rejection of authority will make society “make them” with incarceration or other penalties. Kids would do far better learning this at a young age from people who have their best interests at heart, you know like parents, and if not parents, teachers, but this will not happen and our society is already beginning to reflect our failure. A healthy fear of authority is truly wisdom and we fail to teach this at our peril. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Oh that we would embrace wisdom again, rather than the foolishness of “conventional wisdom” which in our day is neither.

But there is another side of this verse. A negative side whereby people regard the Lord with terror. They see the power of the Lord but do not see His benevolent love. I had a great illustration of this last night. I was returning to my parsonage from Bible Study. I pulled into the garage to discover a Katydid sitting on the windshield wiper. I don’t really like bugs, but this guy was doing no harm, so I decided to catch him and release him back into the great outdoors. Well of course he saw me coming at him and he flew. I couldn’t catch him because he was afraid.

Now don’t get me wrong, I get it. I probably outweigh him by thousands of times, and tower over him, and if I saw something of similar proportions coming at me, no doubt I would run and hide, too, but here’s the thing. My intention was entirely benevolent. Had I captured him, he would have been in my hand for five seconds, and this morning he would be out doing all the things Katydids do, probably eating grass. Instead he is hidden somewhere in my garage, and before long he will starve. Had his fear not overcome him, he would be in a much better state than he is this morning. As I was thinking of this, I wondered is this another side to the idea of the fear of the Lord. Not so much fearing the Lord, but fear that is from the Lord. After all, there are times where fear is good and right and justified, but there are other times where something we fear is actually meant for our good and is a great blessing—overcome a little fear and receive a great blessing in return.

So what do you fear today. Is it justified or are you running from something that is meant for your good?

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I got this really interesting journal today. It’s by a company called Waff. It’s got this rubber waffle like cover and comes with an assortment of letter tiles you can use to decorate the cover. I called my Ideas 4 World Domination Notes. Now to be clear, I don’t really want to rule the world. I know the guy who does and it’s too big a job for me. The idea was to do something a little tongue in cheek where I could store my product ideas, book outlines and other things that pop into my head that I might one day take to market.

As you know I am a big advocate of storing ideas and I thought this might be a good way to do it. After all ideas are very valuable to creatives and most of us are pretty prolific idea generators. If we’re not careful, though, we can have a hundred projects started and none finished. It’s far better to finish what you’re working on and store the other ideas for when your current project is finished.

Guys we have got to finish what we start. Until our work is finished, we can’t share it with the world, and until it’s shared, it benefits no one. I think sometimes withholding our work is just a form of procrastination. We still feel busy and somewhat productive, but we don’t have to deal with rejection, or any one of a hundred other things we fear. Of course all those fears also keep us from the best byproduct of finishing a project… SUCCESS.

What we really fear is how the world will receive (or not receive) our work. Putting that fear behind us allows us to achieve a different kind of world domination. The kind that allows us to stand up and say here is my contribution, I hope you like it and if you don’t, I’m not worried, someone will. It’s that kind of confidence that allows us to succeed.

I am really excited to start filling my world domination notebook, I’m even more excited to share what comes out of that book with the world around me. You need to do the same. Your ideas are your own. If you don’t put them out there, no one will, because no one else can.

Get out there and dominate!


In our world there seem to be an almost infinite amount of things we can be worried about—things that can strike fear into our hearts. Terror, the economy, even the upcoming election, all these things and many more can send us cowering into a corner. In the midst of everything, we have this command from Jesus to now worry:

Matthew 6:25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Like everything else Jesus said, it’s absolutely true. Most of what we worry about never happens and even the stuff that does happen is largely out of our control. No use allowing our fears to limit the size of our world. What is fear really? It’s imagination misused. We imagine the worst and the worst is what we end up with. On the other hand we serve a God for whom all things are possible. This should allow us to see past fear to infinite possibilities and when we see infinite possibilities we can stop cowering in fear and start working toward solutions.

The first step in any problem, whether real or imagined, is prayer. Take your worries, your fears and your actual problems to the One who knows everything. This is a first response not a last ditch effort. Then trust, obey and move. In every problem, God can. God is capable. We just need to be faithful and remember the first five letters in faithfulness are F-A-I-T-H.

Let’s imagine better and then work to make it so.


This morning on my prayer walk I learned something from some very foolish deer. I was walking down the street when I saw two deer run into the road. One of the deer saw the car coming toward him and assumed the stereotypical deer in the headlights position. I clapped my hands to get him to move and he did. What I could not see though was two more deer were behind him and they jumped into the road as well. The car narrowly missed the last two deer. It could have been a fatal mistake and that’s when it hit me. That’s what fear does.

After this incident, I walked at least ten minutes before I saw another car. Had the deer waited, they would have had all the time in the world to cross the street, but they didn’t know that, they’re deer. Their fear of me, though I posed no threat, drove them into the path of very real danger. Fear can often cause us to make impulsive decisions rather than taking the time to think and then do something rational. Sometimes fear is valid. Most times fear is misused imagination.

The impact of fear on creatives is phenomenal. We do one bad piece of work (or maybe it’s a good piece but someone gives us an adverse reaction) and the next thing we know we condemn all of our work, decide we’re not good enough and give up. Maybe the reaction is not quite that severe, but how many pieces of work are in your workspace right now that will never see the light of day because you fear that it’s not good enough. Learn the lesson from the deer. The thing you fear is not the real threat. The real threat is jumping to the conclusion that you’re not good enough and never becoming all that you can be. Don’t jump to that conclusion. Look at your work and your choices, be rational and move when the time is right.

Don’t let fear wreck your life.


There are times for al but the strongest in faith where fear and doubt come to call and when they do it is a real bear. Is it a lack of faith? To some degree, yes, but the purpose of this post is not to beat us up. Often, at least for me, it starts with a kernel of doubt. Often it’s not a doubt about God but rather looking at our own abilities, our own resources and doubting we are up to the challenge at hand. When this happens, doubt gets on a roll and invites her ugly stepsister, fear, to the party. From there, it’s a downhill slide. The ultimate assault is on our faith, and a byproduct of that is an attack on creativity.

You see creativity and faith are the two things that are needed to get us through the majority of our struggles. Faith brings hope and creativity helps us to find the solution to the problem. Without those two things we will wallow in fear and hope (while still there) become nearly invisible.

Here’s what we need to remember. There is hope because there is God. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. God is not fickle, He’s solid, the same yesterday, today and forever. He loves you today, He will love you tomorrow, and He is always there, walking us through the valleys.

Don’t make the mistake of looking at this post and thinking I am a strong person who has this mastered. Truth be known, I am writing this at what I hope is the end of a valley myself. Fear and doubt did a number on me just yesterday and in writing this, I really hope it helps someone, but ultimately this is as much about reminding myself.

God is always good. He’s bigger than our fears and our doubts.

Remember…


This post is going to seem really strange, so please stick with me. I think you will see my point.

I just awoke from a nightmare. I was out with some friends in the woods. I think I was going to be speaking because we were standing around this large amphitheater. We were chatting before hand and I was standing on a couple rocks that were sort of loose rocking back and forth. I remember thinking, “I better watch myself, there could be rattlesnakes under these rocks.” All of the sudden one of my friends, yells and grabs a rock to kill a huge rattlesnake. I remember thinking, “He’ll never kill it with that rock.” Sure enough the snake reared up. I thought, “I better get out of here.” I started to back away, and sure enough it looked at me and started coming toward me.

I was scared and started to back away faster. All of the sudden, the thing grew legs so it could come after me faster. It morphed into a rabid dog and I started to run. I remember thinking, “If I fall it will get me.” and sure enough I tripped and fell. The snarling figment of my imagination (rabid snake-dog???) was on top of me in seconds ready to bite, and then, mercifully, I woke up.

Why do I tell you such a weird dream. Did you notice what happened? Everything I thought came into being. Everything, every fear, my imagination conjured, came true. I don’t necessarily think that happens in the real world all the time, but sometimes it does. The stuff we worry about seems to happen. It’s not necessarily anything mystical, just self fulfilling prophecies. If we think about something long enough we will subconsciously make it happen or if we look for something long enough, we find it. At the very least we let the stuff we worry about steal our joy and we miss a lot, fearing something that may never happen.

Creatives specialize bringing the things we imagine to reality. This is awesome but it can be a two edged sword. Fear and worry are often imagination misused. We need to get our thinking, our minds under control. We need to identify negative thought patterns and put them out. Jesus warned us about worry and asked us to trust Him instead. Paul tells us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. How we think definitely determines the way we live. So check yourself, take those thoughts captive, and give them to Jesus.

Otherwise the rabid snake-dogs are coming…


This is an amazingly loaded question. It’s also a question that can go both ways. On one hand it can unlock unlimited potential and on the other can chain us to crippling fear. It all depends on your perspective.

I mean this is a question we should ask as we make choices. The Bible calls it “counting the cost” and in this case it involves wisdom. Asking “What would happen if I…?” could save some people immeasurable pain.

But on the other hand, this question can also keep us from experiencing some really amazing stuff. Fear can be amazingly constructive. It keeps us from doing things that are harmful. On the other hand we can also make all kinds of answers to the question “What would happen if I…?” Fear at its worst is imagination misused. Ask yourself how many of the things we worry about ever really happen?

This dynamic is especially important in the creative realm. I have this fear that there have been many works of creative brilliance that will never be simply because someone answered the question, “What will happen if I create this?” With things like “people will hate it” or “they’ll see I’m not that good” or “people will laugh at me or…” How many of the world’s problems will go unsolved because the person who had the right idea deemed himself unqualified?

So let’s ask the question. What would happen if you created this thing that is on your heart and/or mind? Will some people not like it? Yes, but some people will love it or be challenged by it, or be touched or encouraged by it, by you!

Will some people laugh at you? Maybe. They also laughed at a whole lot of other people before they succeeded.

Will some people see you’re not that good? What’s good? Who is a better singer, Pavarotti or Dylan? The answer is “yes.” Cause who knows? One person will be touched by Pavarotti’s technical prowess, another person will be blown away by Dylan’s message.

What if you just began to create and put it out for the world to see? What if you ignored the haters and created for the people who will love what you do? What if you gave of yourself and bared your heart in the hopes of easing someone’s pain or making someone’s live better or maybe just to say someone out here understands? What would happen if you did that? It would make the world a better place, even if just by a little bit.

What would happen if  you let this question stop you?